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Entries from November 2007

Thanksgiving Part II

November 29, 2007 · Leave a Comment

Saturday afternoon, we ran into more traffic than we anticipated on the way to the football game.  We ended up parking in a garage across campus from the stadium.  In my mind, this was the best of all possible scenarios because we got to walk through the campus and see what it looked like.  University of Washington has a mix of classic, gothic academic buildings and modern structures. 

We met Jenny just outside the field house as the band was getting ready to go inside to get the crowd stirred up for the game.  She looked so comfortable and impressive in her band uniform.  I didn’t know she was the section leader for the Baritones!  It was fun to see the band perform.  Not only did they play beautifully, they also had these moves that were funny.  At one point, different sections of the band came out around the crowd.  Jenny gathered us quickly and the next thing I know, we are surrounded by baritones playing just for us.  Afterward, we individually were “baritoned”.  A picture is worth 1,000 words.  Here is my sister being baritoned.  Mary being Baritoned

Since she is a senior, it was Jenny’s last home game.  Her name and major were displayed on the HuskyTron, but, to be honest, I was so concerned about snapping a picture of the HuskyTron at the moment that it displayed her name, that I didn’t really see it.  I would share a picture of it, but I ended up snapping a picture a little too late.

 The game was fun, but the Huskies lost.  The best part was the band.  They made such interesting patterns on the field and played quite well.  I was so amazed.  It was fun trying to find Jenny as she marched around the field.  But keeping track of her individually, I lost track of the pattern as a whole.  My sister had to tell me that they had made a train.  Once I readjusted to look at the train, I had lost the pretty blonde Baritone.

We were way up in the upper deck.  Third level.  It shook as the crowd stomped their feet and yelled.  Cory was frightened.  “To begin with,” he explained “I am afraid of heights.  Next, it shakes.  I wish I hadn’t come.”  He seemed mollified when I offered to walk around with him after half time.  But I started thinking about all 72,000 or so of us in this stadium and how awful it would be if the upper deck did, in fact, collapse.  What if there were a fire or other emergency in the few rows above us near the top?  After the game, it took a long time to file out of the stands.

After the game, Jenny took us around the campus a bit.  I wanted to see the physics building where she studies.  She showed us where the physics library and offices are and the building containing the physics lecture halls.  She told us how little she liked chemistry as a freshman, but she’s taking it again now as a senior and it is much better.  She explained some of the challenges as a freshman and I thought it’s no wonder the drop out rate from college is so high.  Jenny is extremely bright and has tremendous tenacity.  What must it be like for others?

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Happy Thanksgiving! Part I

November 26, 2007 · Leave a Comment

Charlie got sick and couldn’t make the trip. Bruce stayed home to take care of him.  Friday morning Charlie woke up screaming “I can’t breathe!”  That was pretty scary.

In Maple Valley, life wasn’t nearly so scary.  On Thanksgiving, my sister and her family, Tom’s new girlfriend, Jenny’s boyfriend, Monica’s boyfriend, my parents, Mary, Cory and I spent the afternoon together.  We had a football game in the backyard that was pretty fun.  It was fun to have the eclectic mix of abilities.  It didn’t last too long, but just long enough to get some fresh air.  It was so nice to meet the “special friends” of the next generation. They are nice people, intelligent, and well adjusted.  I hope my kids make good choices when they are older, as these “kids” have.  I hope that I am able to appreciate it when it happens.

Friday morning my sister and I went to the Marathon Expo.  It was crowded and freaked me out a little, but the race shirt was nice and I bought a few from last year for Bruce for Christmas.  I can’t remember what happened after that.  Sad, in a way.  Perhaps it is early onset alzheimers.  I wonder if people will take care of me when I can no longer think.  Perhaps it’s Marathon Brain.

Saturday we went on a short run with Mary’s running group.  They are such nice people.  And it’s gotten to the point where I feel as if they welcome me as one of them.  It was good to see Val and hear how her running has been going.  Monica came, too, and did a great job.  It was nice to have the chance to talk to her one on one.  And to tell her how much I admire her.  She really is an incredible person.  She’s coming to visit in a few weeks and I can’t wait!

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Having It All

November 19, 2007 · Leave a Comment

I got to see my friend, Bambi, last Friday.  I haven’t seen her in 17 years.  She is just as pretty and fun as I remember.  She has an infant and a 3 year old, so she is very busy and tired.  Several times she said “How do you do it all with three kids?”  Although I know it is easier as they get older, like mine are, I was starting to feel pretty competent and good about my myriad accomplishments.  I reflected privately about how I do it all.  Full of maternal wisdom.

Then Reality showed up in the form of a shapely pre-teen with an aversion for cleaning her room.  Gentle reminders were getting me no where, so after a few days I said “No electronics until your room is clean.”  She hid in her room and read a book.  Hours went by.  Then she had to print something for school and I said “No.  Clean your room first.”  “But it’s for school!” she complained, late on Sunday evening.  I said “Clean your room first.”  She stormed upstairs, undoubtedly wondering how she could have such a horrid mom.  A few minutes later, I found myself holding onto her ankle as she was attempting to escape into the darkness through the doggie door.  Could this be my reality?  My daughter would rather run away from home than clean her room?  Lucky for me, her dad stepped in and escorted her back to her room where he kept an eye on her while she made it clean enough to pass his minimal standards so she could print her homework.  On a Sunday night.  This is why it takes two parents.  Good cop, bad cop.  Good parent, bad parent.

How do I do it?  I don’t have any idea.

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November 9, 2007 · Leave a Comment

second life

I thought this was so funny.

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Risky Sports

November 4, 2007 · Leave a Comment

Last year in the Tucson Marathon, Marc Witkes died.  William Goggins died in the San Francisco Marathon.  Larry Altneu died almost a year ago in the Orange County Marathon.  Yesterday, Ryan Shay died at the Olympic Trials Marathon.  Who would have pegged running for a risky sport?  It’s not like mountain climbing.  Or helicopter skiing.  Or race car driving.  I suppose just walking to the grocery store carries some degree of risk.  Should I have my groceries delivered?  I say “No way.”  When I go, I hope I am current with those I love and I hope I am running.

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